Thursday, February 14, 2013

GUEST CONTRIBUTOR SPORTS PSYCHOLOGIST STAN TEITELBAUM COMMENTS ON DI MAGGIO, TED WILLIAMS AND OTHER SPORTS IMMORTALS

This is a condensed version of a presentation my old friend, Stan Teitelbaum, gave recently to the Society of American Baseball Research in NYC: 
HOW SPORTS WRITERS INFLUENCE THE IMAGE OF MAJOR LEAGUERS; FROM DI MAGGIO, WILLIAMS, AND CAMPANELLA TO ROCKER, MC GWIRE, AND BONDS
“Sportswriters always have had a powerful role in shaping the image of our elite major leaguers, but there has been a gradual and very dramatic shift in the way writers cover sports stories.  The gentlemen's agreement of earlier times in which off the field incidents were not addressed or under reported, has been replaced by a readiness among writers to report about off-the-field moral or illegal transgressions. Scandal is now what drives newspaper sales.
Joe Di Maggio was a master at cultivating his image. He gave the press good sound bites, and they fell in love with him and conveyed this to the hero hungry fans and pumped him up as a super star supreme.  In a best seller biography about Di Maggio, Richard Ben Cramer wrote, "He understood that we would give him anything, if he would always be the hero we required". The anything was unrelenting unconditional love.     
Ted Williams, on the other hand, maintained a defensive indifference to how he was perceived by the writers as well as the fans, which masked his sensitivity to criticism and feeling undervalued, as he had been in his childhood by neglectful parents. As a result he often was lambasted by the press, and he didn't need much assistance in this department, because he was dismissive toward them and engaged in an ongoing feuding relationship with the writers.
In more recent times a sample of media takedowns can be seen in the player-media relationships of John Rocker, Mark McGwire, and Barry Bonds. In an interview with Sports Illustrated, Rocker described how he hated playing in New York, and made disparaging remarks about foreigners, minorities, and gays.  Rocker claimed that he had been misrepresented in the story, and threatened the writer. Nevertheless, he was suspended and fined by MLB and ordered to get a psychological evaluation and sensitivity training.  In defense of Rocker, John Stossel of 20/20 questioned whether Rocker should be punished for his remarks in a country that espouses freedom of speech.  Stossel argued that players who had committed acts of violence, like Jose Canseco hitting his ex-wife, and Charles Barley throwing a man out of a barroom window, were not suspended or forced to have psychological evaluations; so violent speech should not be viewed as more offensive than violent action.
Mark McGwire has become the symbol for the widespread collusion of denial surrounding the use of steroids in MLB.  The writer who exposed him, Steve Wilstein, was vilified, because the media were eager to pump up McGwire as the new home run champion in the feel good story of 1998. Ultimately, McGwire was shot down by the writers in 2006, when his name appeared on the HOF ballot for the first time and he received a flimsy 23.5% of the vote, which I think was payback overkill by the writers who may have been projecting their anger at themselves for having ignored the obvious during the home run circus and functioned as a group of enablers. 
Barry Bonds, the most compelling symbol of the steroids era, was also proficient at alienating the sportswriters who have consistently described him as rude, surly, scornful, contemptuous, and insulting.  Some writers in their zeal to discredit Bonds have overstated his pathology.  Bob Klapisch, a New Jersey sportswriter with a large following has labeled Bonds as a sociopath.  This is a serious misunderstanding and misuse of a psychiatric diagnosis, since the term applies to people who engage in repetitive law breaking activity and violating the rights of others.  In this way Klapisch is encouraging readers to misconstrue his pathology and further darken Bonds's image. 

Stanley H. Teitelbaum has a PhD in Clinical Psychology and is the author of several books including, "Athletes Who Indulge Their Dark Side" and "Sports Heroes, Fallen Idols"(See Amazon Books). His books even outsell mine. Stan is a devoted tennis player and his game keeps improving, like a good red wine, with age.

Friday, February 8, 2013

I’VE FINALLY STRUCK IT RICH, THAT IS IF YOU CALL $950,000 RICH




Just when I thought that my ship would never come in I received an E-mail from Mr. Okuson Samuel in Nigeria proclaiming that a bank draft in the sum of $950,000 was awaiting me. I don’t remember meeting a Okuson Samuel and I’ve never been to Nigeria but I’m not one to look a gift horse in the mouth. All I have to do is send $190 by Western Union to:     
                                 FEDEX DELIVERY POST
                                 Contact Delivery Manager
                                 Mr. Micheal Kolo

I assume Mr. Kolo is a very high-ranking FEDEX official in Nigeria.
I sent in my money as soon as I received the E-mail because I noticed that this same E-mail was sent to some 400 other people, whose E-mail addresses were included in the notice I received. I E-mailed them not to bother responding because I had already sent in my $190.
In case you do not believe me I’ve attached a copy of the missive from my new friend Okuson Samuel. His English is a little rusty but I couldn’t care less. 
I haven’t received my $950,000 but it should be any day now because my Western Union money order was cashed in Nigeria.  I wonder what color Bentley goes best with my complexion.



Dear: Valuable Customer,

 We have been waiting for you to contact us for your Confirmable Package that is registered with us for shipping to your residential location. We had thought that your sender gave you our contact Details. It may interest you to know that a letter is also added to Your package.

We understand that the content of your package itself is a Bank Draft worth of $950,000.00USD (Nine hundred and fifty thousand dollars), FedEx does not ship money in CASH or in CHEQUES but Bank Drafts are shippable. The package is registered with Us for mailing by your colleague from United Nations Organization, and Your colleague explained that he is from U.S.A but he is currently In ASIA for a three (3) months Surveying Project as he works with a Consultant firm in MALAYSIA, We are sending you this email because your Package is been registered on a Special Order.

For your information, the VAT & Shipping charges as well as Insurance Fees have been paid by your Colleague before your package was Registered. Note that the payment that is made on the Insurance, Premium & Clearance Certificates, are to certify that the Bank Draft is not a Drug Affiliated Fund (DAF). This will help you avoid any form of query from the Monetary Authority of your country.


Please note that packages are not shipped nor delivered on Saturday, Sunday and on holidays. If your order has been placed on any of these days,Then it may be shipped the following business day.
Kindly complete the below form and send it to the FEDEX DELIVERY POST With the below informations. This is mandatory to reconfirm your Postal address and telephone numbers.

FULL NAMES:
TELEPHONE:
POSTAL ADDRESS:
SEX:
CITY:
STATE:
OCUPATION:
COUNTRY:

However, you will have to pay a sum of $190.00 USD to the FedEx Delivery Department being full payment for the Security Keeping Fee of the parcel Been registered by your colleague, FedEx Company as stated in our privacy Terms & condition page. You are therefore advised to make the payment of the $190 through western union/money gram to the information below,

Name Of Sender:..................................
Address Of Sender:..............................
Name Of Receiver: MR.OKOSUN SAMUEL
Destination:.... No 12 Creek Road Wuse 11, LAGOS , NIGERIA
Text Question:............................Helper
Text Answer:.................................God
M.T.C.N:.......Make Available After Payment.

FEDEX DELIVERY POST.
Contact Delivery Manager
Mr.Micheal Kolo
Tel: +234-8079-334-412
Fax: +234-8079-334-412
Email: michealkolo222@yahoo.cn

Thursday, January 31, 2013

AARON KRICKSTEIN POSES FOR EARL'S PEARLS


Aaron’s movie star visage made him a stunning candidate for a photographic portrait. The former sixth ranked tennis player in the world serves as Director of Tennis at a Boca Raton country club and also currently on the Outback Champions Series Over-30 tour where he competes against the likes of John McEnroe, Pete Sampras and Jim Courier.






Click on this line or the link below to view Aaron on the courts.
http://www.stevegtennis.com/2012/08/great-matches-of-the-us-open-part-one/

Friday, January 25, 2013

ONLY THE GOOD DIE

I finally figured out why the world is such a very difficult place in which to live. Have you ever wondered why there are wars, prejudice, widespread criminal activity on high and on low, and a host of other ills that beset our society? Just read the Obituary pages in your local paper (if indeed your local area has a newspaper) and the answer is obvious. Only the good die.
         Every person named in the Obits is either a loving person, a great friend, a caring relative, an esteemed member, a quintessential New Yorker defined by elegance and philanthropy, a gentle man who was kind to his friends and family, a warm, genuine, vivacious and deeply caring person, a wonderful human being, a best friend, a loving mentor, a deeply cherished person, an effective and inspiring leader, a distinguished public servant, etc. 
So only the good die which leaves our world populated with bastards  - - - and until some of the bastards die we’ll still have wars, prejudice, criminal activity ad infinitum.
I’ll know that my children’s and grandchildren’s’ future will be a brighter one once I read that some of the bastards are dying off.




P.S. On January 25, 2013 The New York Times had an obituary that included respected entrepreneur and hot dog connoisseur.


Wednesday, January 23, 2013

SPYROS SKOURAS DIED ON MY BIRTHDAY

     My morning ritual is to shower and shave and then make my breakfast. I read the New York Times over my toast and coffee, or to be more exact I always read the obituaries first. You know the old joke that a senior citizen reads the obituaries to see of his name is there. Well the other day, fortunately my name wasn’t there, but Spyros Skouras’ name was.
Reading his obituary brought me back to a day in 1945 when I returned to Yale from two and half years in the Air Force. I was lucky enough to be assigned a single room in Pierson, one of the 10 or so “colleges” in which students lived and ate. 
That was a memorable day for me because as I started moving my things into the room a large number of students started to file into the room to say, “Hello”. I was astounded because I didn’t remember ‘Yalies’ as being so friendly. I introduced myself to each person who entered and noticed a surprised look on their faces when I told them my name.
One student put me out of (or into) my misery but announcing that the word was that Spryos Skouras (son of the shipping magnate) was supposed to occupy that room. Imagine their disappointment when no Spyros, and to add insult to injury for some, it was a Jewish student  - - - one of the few allowed in under the University’s quota system.


Tuesday, January 22, 2013

FREE LUNCH AT IHOP

    You undoubtedly recall that I received a coupon from IHOP to recognize my 87th birthday last week. I love their Swedish pancakes topped with luscious lingonberries so the gift was most appreciated. And to add to my riches I had received a jar of imported lingonberries from the Deena and Alan Cohen as a birthday present.
     Since there was a 7 day limit for the use of the coupon, Judy and I  rushed out to Sunday Brunch with coupon in hand. I decided that it would be insulting to the chef at IHOP to bring my own lingonberries so I went berryless.
      Judy had a Senior Special, two of everything for $5.99, and I ordered the crepes ($7.99). Both dishes were delicious.

     The restaurant was jammed - - - I assumed everyone there had just had a birthday within 7 days.  A waitress bring a balloon to a woman at another table, who was then serenaded with a chorus of "Happy Birthday".  I awaited a similar singing accolade and balloon but none was forthcoming. I felt a little let down, but restrained  myself from making a scene.
    As I paid my check at the cash register I mentioned to the cashier that Mrs. X had gotten a balloon in recognition of her and that I hadn't. She replied with a smile, "We like her better."; but then she reached under the desk and brought forth a beautiful blue balloon and asked if I wanted her to blow it up for me. I thought awhile and then decided to leave well enough alone.

Monday, January 21, 2013

GERMAN VISITORS

     In the past few weeks about 40% of the visitors to Earl's Pearls have come from Germany. I welcome them but can't for the life of me figure out how they found my Blog and what attracted them to this site.
     I'd be interested in finding the answer to this "rätsel"and I'd appreciate it if anyone from Germany would post a Comment or send me an E-mail with an explanation.

Auf Wiedersehen